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How do you SEXplore when parts of your body don’t function? Imagine you can’t move your legs or your fingers. How would you get in and out of bed, how would you change position, how would you stroke someone? The living room is tastefully furnished. The big glass windows let...

I JUST WANNA FEELALL THERE ISTO FEELIN LIFETO FEELALIVE It takes a lot of courage living life really wanting to feel all there is.Of course, there are always things we ‘just have to do’ but in between there is so much space ‘just to feel’.Wanting to feel life is a...

I grew up in a family in which we skillfully danced around the elephants in the room (meaning avoiding conflict) feeding the narrative we’ve created hoping that this is how we can keep up the peace and eventually will die happily ever after. This survival strategy that is so commonly...

Flirt with your fears There is no way you can fool your own process when old traumas are being triggered. You get it all. Right in your face.  The question is: what do you do with all that moves inside of you? Calm the noise, conquer the chaos by breathing...

Are you ready to meet God through pleasure?Do you give yourself the permission to receive full blown pleasure that empties your mind and bangs your soul?Most of us have a whole army of guardians protecting our portal to pleasure.There are many different reasons why we develop survival strategies along the...

is overcoming the fearof loosing what is dearto you. And others. BREAKING THE SILENCE is having the courageto speak up and outloudly BREAKING THE SILENCE is you screamingfrom the top of your loungeswhat’s going on! BREAKING THE SILENCE is undressing the shame,is calling out the guilt. BREAKING THE SILENCE is...

For many years I’ve been witnessing closely what happens when only a few people have the power within an institution or a community of like minded people. Especially in sex positive spaces, it is absolutely crucial to have a trusted group of people around you that has the tools to...

The more intimate the relationship is, the more likely at some point sooner or later, something happens that triggers the shit out of me and awakes parts in me that are so nasty, so extreme, so ugly and powerful that afterwards all I can feel is a sense of deep...

Be honest! Does it excite you and you got a pretty good idea of what I might be talking about? Or do you judge the shit out of me for doing things a good girl should not be doing? Or do you get jealous because your SEXplorer is frozen like...

When they are ‘doing their thing’, when they are comfortable within their body, when they move with ease and beyond their limitations while smiling at life.” The other day, I had one of the most inspiring encounters ever. It was with a man my age that has been in a...